permissions & opt-out

[gonepostal]

Su Fei Age: 27 Gender: Cis Woman (she/her) Sexuality: Lesbian OOC Permissions ▐ Backtagging: generally fine, please just contact me first—depending on what's going on elsewhere in the game, i may want to handwave it/parts of it and/or start something new! stuff that's more slice-of-life-y or has been plotted ahead of time is almost always good to go though ▐ Thread Hopping: let me know first, if only so i don't miss the notification! ▐ Fully Off Limits: please do not discuss the following in threads with me: torture body horror (mild, goofy stuff is acceptable, but absolutely nothing painful—my line probably exists somewhere around that one steven universe episode if that's helpful; if it's not, feel free to ask!) spiders (with or without images) excessive gore images of bugs cannibalism in addition, i would prefer not to engage with the smuttier parts of folkmore; please avoid discussion about those events in threads with me! ▐ Please Warn For: child abuse and discussion thereof; i am not always capable of engaging with this subject, so ideally please contact me ooc before getting into it! please note this doesn't apply generally to children in peril, but specifically abuse (emotional, physical, neglectful, or otherwise) by parental figures. i would ask that you err on the side of being too cautious with this one! bigotry in general. i'm okay with discussion of queerphobia, racism, misogyny, etc., but would like a content warning. if you want to be bigoted at su fei, err on the side of contacting me first—with the exception that if a character is going to be casually ableist about su fei's disability, i'm okay with playing that out without pre-planning as long as it's warned for and you don't necessarily expect her to take it nicely lmao. to be clear, well-intended ignorance won't tank cr right out the gate!! but she's likely to be a li'l mean about it in return discussion of sexual assault IC Permissions ▐ Physical Contact: totally fine! su fei is very jocular and is likely to initiate this sort of thing herself if your permissions allow it ▐ Mental Contact: go for it; she has no magical/psychic/etc., abilities herself, and therefore no blocks nor ability to sense this sort of thing ▐ Flirting & Affection: acceptable with similarly-aged characters. women may be flirted back with. men will be laughed at to their faces. ▐ Fighting: totally down for it, please just give me a heads up first ▐ Injury & Death: let's talk about it! ▐ Shipping: f/f only! in a game setting, if shit starts happening then shit starts happening, y'know. talk to me! i don't like planning out ships from absolutely nothing but if there's existing chemistry then i definitely want to talk about it. in memes, i generally don't want to ship with strangers, sorry! friends should talk to me first about assuming shippy cr with su fei on a meme thread. ▐ Smut: eeeeehhh probably not, and if it does happen it's definitely going fade-to-black Content Warnings for Su Fei war, fighting, death, trauma. su fei was a soldier and did and saw a lot of killing! specific instances don't ever need to be discussed, though the general trauma around this is probably the hardest to avoid—because it informs so much of su fei's characterization, if it is a hard line for you, instead of a thing you can engage with if it's kept vague/warned for/only sometimes, opting out of threads with su fei might be for the best. i won't tell you how to live your life though fire. some of those aforementioned deaths were by immolation, and su fei herself was severely injured by a fire spell. she has severe burns on much of her lower body and is missing a leg because of those injuries. discussion of fire and/or burning can be avoided in threads with su fei, but the best i can do about her burn scars is keep from mentioning them explicitly. i obviously can't really get around mentioning the missing leg though alcohol. i would not go so far as to call su fei an alcoholic, but her relationship with drinking is noooot a particularly healthy one. she is not dependent on it, exactly, and it's very easy to just not discuss this or have her drink at all in threads Opt Out if there are specific subjects you want to avoid when playing with su fei, or if you'd prefer not to play with her at all, please let me know here! all comments are screened and i will not ask for justification—at best, if you're looking to avoid specific subjects, i may ask for clarification to make sure i understand where the line is

by killthecake